I know I love me but I’m not so sure about you. That’s the gist of it all really. Because if I’m not sure about you but I am sure about me, why give up the surety of me for the insecurity of you?
the answers then is that if you come to me, secure in how much you love you and I come to you with how much I love me then we are each very secure and it will show. the best and worst of us can show and it will be okay because I love me not because I’m perfect but because I am, I exist in all my flawed but trying glory. I exist and in each moment there is so much more of me to love than not.